The Big Bang Theory
Episode 16: The
Tangible Proof Affection
By: Carlos Uribe
The
Big Bang Theory is about a group of friends who happen to be nerds
and the girl next door.
Spoilers
Ahoy!
It
is about time that Raj got a girlfriend. He's been the only character
in the entire run of the show that hasn't really had one. There was
the time he briefly dated a deaf character but she was only
interested in him for the money. He's a character in that his
inability to speak with women sober makes it difficult for him to ask
a girl out on a date. This social problem has not only affected his
ability to get dates but it's also held back his character growth. It
makes sense that the writers wouldn't want to remove this ability
because they still think it's funny and because character development
on sit-coms moves at a snail's pace. This was an episode that largely
explored a lot of the same material that has been present throughout
the season. Raj is sad and lonely because he doesn't want anyone in
his life. Stuart shares that pain. Since it's Valentine's Day, the
two decide to throw a special party for all the single nerds out
there. The party turns out to be a literal giant pity party as
everybody is just miserable in one place. After Raj delivers a speech
to try and make everyone feel better, a new female character named
Lucy appears and decides to take him out on a date. This does prove
that females do enter Stuart's comic book shop after all so I guess
the outrage on the show's outdated stereotypes can settle down a bit.
Kate Micucci is a great actress and it's great to see her appear in
what will hopefully be a significant time. Her character isn't really
developed yet since we only met her at the very end but this should
be a significant development for Raj that will hopefully allow him to
have some significant growth in his personal life.
The
show decides to take the Valentine's Day holiday and bring in some
relationship drama. The one that's apparent from the get-go is
between Howard and Bernadette. Bernadette isn't happy that Howard
didn't do the one load of laundry that she asked him to do so she
decided to hide his X-box. This relationship drama is based from a
place of character. Howard might be married and has grown a lot since
the pilot but he's still very immature. He doesn't like to take care
of himself and expects his wife to treat him like his mother did.
Bernadette isn't happy because she didn't want to marry a son but a
partner. Their conflict leads to a scene at the lunch but it's
quickly overshadowed by Penny and Leonard's problems. The two are
able to resolve their difference when Howard promises to do more in
his household duties while Bernadette reveals the location of his
video game system. It's a pretty good romantic plot but it's genius
is in the fake-out. Howard's search for the perfect Valentine's Day
present is revealed early on because he's trying to make it up to
Bernadette for failing to do his own part. It seems like this is
what's going to dominate the episode and the dinner does start to be
ruined by their bickering. In reality, it's a way for the show to
mask the real relationship drama of the episode. When the real drama
is revealed, it flows seamlessly and make a lot of sense. For all
their problems, the two at least are on the same page on what they
feel towards each other.
There
are two couples who are on different pages. The first is Leonard and
Penny. Leonard is in love with Penny and he's not afraid to commit to
her. Penny remains unwilling to take their relationship to the next
level. When Leonard decides to to do something special on Valentine's
Day, Penny basically ruins the night. She basically tries to sabotage
Leonard's plans to make the holiday special because she has serious
and glaring commitment issues. Leonard isn't happy with this because
he just wanted to spend a romantic evening with his girlfriend. The
two are finally able to resolve their conflict when Leonard promises
that he'll stop proposing to Penny. He decides that if Penny ever
decides to take their relationship to the next stage, she has to be
the one to propose to him. It's a sweet gesture that allows Penny to
have a measure of control over how fast their relationship is moving.
It's also a great character move as it allows Leonard to at least
compromise from where he stands. He knows he's more committed into
this relationship than Penny but he's allowing her to move at her own
speed. This not only will help ensure that they stay together but
it's a huge sign of maturity. What is interesting it's the second
week in a row where Penny and Sheldon are in similar places in their
relationships even though it's for different reasons.
Just
like how Penny doesn't want to do anything special for Valentine's
Day, Sheldon doesn't wan to do anything. Penny is worried about the
pressure that the holiday has on couples but Sheldon just finds it
irritating. He doesn't want to spend his time looking for a
Valentine's Day gift so he decides to have his assistant look for
one. She only finds one present that he finds suitable and he decides
to keep it. He's just being a jerk like usual this episode but there
is a moment of sweetness. When Amy decides to do nothing special on
Valentine's Day as her gift to Sheldon, he decides to give her a gift
that means a lot to her. He adds her as his emergency contact at
work. Amy is delighted by this because it means that Sheldon is
taking their relationship a little bit more seriously. She does see
the drawback to this when she realizes that it's not necessarily a
good thing to be an emergency contact to a hypochondriac. She is
willing to make the sacrifice because she manages to remain committed
to him-even when his presents to her end up being a self-serving
move.
The
Tangible Proof Affection is a title that refers how each couple tries
to prove that they care about the other person. Leonard decides to
give Penny the responsibility to ask for marriage while Sheldon makes
Amy his emergency contact. Howard promises to do his share of the
household chores. Relationships are all about compromises but in
doing so you provide tangible evidence that you love the other
person. Actions speaks louder than words after all. Overall, this is
a great Valentine's Day episode that has funny relationship
conflict-and that's proving to be the Big Bang Theory at it's very
best.
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